I've seen my girlfriends dad this evening, who is a self employed Mechanic. He is 110% confident that the Torsion bar has lost its 'Torsion' and that's what's causing it to sag, but their 22mm solid steel so how can they become weak? :O
I've tried to explain my best that I think the damper is shot and that the damper
does also support the car, as well as dampen. Am I right in believing that the damper settles when there is equal force pushing down on the damper (The weight of the car) and the damper is pushing open?. When the damper fails it will cause the torsion to twist round more causing the car to sit lower.
I plan to swap the dampers over at the weekend to see if it sits wonky the other-side. If this the case, its £100 for a set of dampers, not £400 for a Axle

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P.s. If it was the Torsion Bar. Can this be replaced with another bar from another axle? Or isn't this recommended? I know how to set the heights correctly.